Hey there Diamond Lovers! Welcome back to DBverse!! Missed me? Hope you did!
I am soo back. With an exciting and motivating post. Today, I’ll be telling you how to become unrecognizable in 7 simple steps. THAT easy! Care to find out more? Then you would want to keep reading!
Before I start with the steps you need to follow, let me give you a background idea first. I’m sure all of you know those influencers, who seem to have it all under control. Going to the gym, having a well paid 9-5 job, buying a new house and designer brands, having a iPhones, Mac-books, iPads. The list goes on. However, is that what you should aim for? I don’t think so. Life isn’t about the expensive stuff. Or is it? I’ll leave that question to be answered in the comment section.
Now, ever thought of treating your life like work? Sounds boring and dull, right? What if I told you that’s the trick? This is the definition of trusting the process. So, follow along.
Let’s start. Start treating your life as if you go to work/school every day. What does that mean?
- Ban “late” from your vocabulary
In work, you’re rarely late. Why? Got bills to pay, you need to be paid and you have a schedule!
That’s exactly it! Remember you saying to a friend, sorry, I’ll be late today, or, nah, I can’t go to the gym because I will be late to something else..
If you start treating your life as if it’s work, you will eliminate the thought of being late. You don’t need to be super strict with yourself. Try to be consistent, and magic will do its work!
Imagine this: having time under YOUR control feels like you’re a king/queen. Right? That’s what I thought! - Work hard, anywhere, any day for anything
Sounds tiring? I know. But would you rather be stuck at “I wish I tried a bit harder.. I was so close.”
Life doesn’t pay you in human money every month or every week. It pays you a bit later than that, but that payment is very much worth it.
Go for it! - Keep your interactions business-like
What’s this now? I will tell you. You know how usually we say things we don’t mean? Almost daily, if not many times in the same day too. Those are things we often regret, and then think of them at night when we go to sleep. Why don’t we change that?
It is time to level up your own game, by thinking twice before you speak.
Treat each conversation like a business one, where you would think twice about what is beneficial for you.
In a business meeting where you’re close to a promotion, you would like to show off yourself and even behave like “I’m the boss, and I’m going to prove it to you”. That’s what you should do with your life too. Why miss on opportunities when you’ve got the charm? Just go for it.
Make it seem like you’re constantly rising to the top. It will be awesome. - Be LOUD
That is indeed a tricky one. You might wonder what I mean by this. Of course, I am not referring to loud as in noisy.
The majority of people these days are simply afraid to express themselves. Whether that’s anonymously on social media, or in front of their friend/study group, they keep silent. Ever wondered why? Criticism.
Silence is not the key. Speaking up for yourself though, is.
So, before you continue, you might want to check #theperfectionismseries:
- Work your life out
You can catch yourself often admiring how many people have it all together. A job, a life, a family even. Is it impossible? NOT for those who are determined to level up their habits.
Idea? Think of yourself as a CEO. What is a CEO? A person in charge of a company’s success. A CEO maintains, grows, expands its business. Imagine your life as a business. Now work as your own CEO to better your life, which will be your business. Amazing, right? You just leveled up! - Money is not the solution
No matter how fancy expensive things look like, they are not always the headline. Life is indeed about money, however, do money define life? Let me hear about this in the comments. What I mean by this, is that, more often than not we are offered opportunities which are just voluntary. These might be relevant to our work/study environment, or just a random activity we signed up for in the first place. I’m here to tell you, it’s okay if they don’t pay you for that one thing. *Warning: what I mean here, is for a voluntary position which is not paid. Of course a paid position for any type of work should be paid fully as discussed on interviews/contracts.*
Sometimes those voluntary unpaid opportunities will open doors which you might not have the chance to open again. Go for it. Not everything has to be paid to be worthy.
Last things last…. - Empower yourself
And be careful here. I don’t mean for you to boost your ego. But your confidence. The difference between ego and confidence can often be a fine line that more than often is crossed by everyone. Do you want me to make a post on this? Share your thoughts in the comment section below!With the right tools, determination and by knowing your worth, nothing can stop you. All you need, is to take the risk and trust the process. And trust me, it might take some time, but in the end it will be more than worth it.
Progress isn’t linear. And if everything was easy, I wouldn’t be writing this post. Appreciate the tough moments in life. They’re not always nice. But, it’s life you’re dealing with! What more can you do? Let that magic cook!
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