Hello everyone, and welcome back to another post of mine! Today, I want to make a motivating post in order to boost your self esteem to the top! It is really vital for each one of us to have a healthy relationship with ourselves, so that leads me to today’s topic! Without further ado, let’s learn how to love and embrace ourselves!

Positivity

The first thing everyone should have in mind, is a positive mindset (okay, this sounds a bit of cliche). But believe me people, a positive mindset is a way to look forward in life, and see things differently. Although, it’s difficult for anyone to have a positive mindset, and that applies for me as well. But, it is vital for everyone to have a positive side of thinking, because this way you can achieve so much more!! Let’s see a few tips and try to have a positive mindset for once!

Tip 1: Surround yourself with positive people – An important factor for a positive mindset is to have around you people that are already positive themselves, so try to socialize with people that have a nice sense of humor, laugh and make you happy.

Tip 2: Visit places that make you happy, and make you forget the negative things that are happening all over the world – To achieve that you will have to escape reality a little. But this will also help you make up your mind and organize better your thoughts.

Tip 3: Self reflect – In order to be a better version of yourself you have to identify your faults too. We are humans and nobody is a saint or the perfect person. We all make mistakes but we learn from them. So, in order to have a positive mindset you should focus on yourself and create a better version of it. Believe in yourself and make it!

Tip 4: Have a healthy lifestyle – This can be achieved in many ways. Create positive and healthy habits you enjoy doing, but put some you don’t really enjoy. For example, make yourself wake up at a time you hate, and then do your favorite thing. Or, do you hate working out? (I secretly hate you if you do that) If you do, then at the time you hate, have that workout and then reward yourself with your favorite habits. This way, you will convince yourself that this is actually nice, and you will stick to that routine and benefit from it!

Tip 5: Reach out to someone – Not everyone needs someone to vent to sometimes, but surely we all need something we can escape at. A really nice way to escape from your thoughts is to vent to someone you trust, or write everything down, read a book, or do something that will block your fears and negative thoughts even for just a short period of time. You can always try to be positive with yourself, it is known as positive self talk. Be proud for yourself and everything you have accomplished so far, you should be because you are a shining star yourself!

Confidence:

Self confidence is really important nowadays. Everyone should have at least a little bit of pride for themselves. And that’s because no one can escape this world unharmed. Well, let’s see some ways you can boost your self confidence!

Tip 1: Figure out what you are good at – Many people believe that they are not good in anything, and they simply are a waste. But each one of us, has a special talent, maybe more than one. So, try to find this out!

Tip 2: Learn how to say no – People, life is not all about kindness and the good will of that stranger. Life is a whole mess, so anyone can mess up with you because they may simply feel like it. Well, that is the way society is, and we can’t do anything to solve it, but we can ignore them, refuse and be honest. Try it out, it will work just fine, I promise!

Tip 3: Positive self talk – I mentioned it earlier, but in order to have self confidence, you need to be positive with yourself. Everything works like a chain, and everything is connected to the other!

Tip 4: Diversity – You should be proud for yourself, no matter what. And that’s because if you don’t believe in yourself first, no one else will. Even if you are poor, even if you don’t have these new shoes everyone has, even if you’re not an excellent student like the others, continue being proud of yourself. Don’t stop because you’re different. Each one of us is different, each one of us faces something that no one else has faced, each one of us is hurting a way no one else does. Don’t apologize for being yourself. People may still hate you, but, guess what! No one is perfect! You cannot be liked by 100 people and you cannot be always the one that is heard. But you can be yourself, you can be different, you can be what you what to be, and trust me, people will admire you for that. And if not all of them, then at least a few of them will.

Tip 5: Never give up – You know, it’s like I’m writing a story right now. Because this article is designed by my personal life and the difficulties I had to face to be here right now. It was not easy, yet, I never gave anything up, I continued dreaming, I continued believing that I will make it, and here I am, I do it right now. What you should be the most proud about, is that you didn’t give up. Many people are giving up in life, and that way they lose. Although life isn’t about winning or losing, but you’re always going to be a winner only if you never give up on yourself.

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